Debra H.

I am 52 and hail from sunny Southern California but originate from back east.

I am a Web Designer by trade and own a small Web Design Service and a few online stores around the net and enjoy meeting folks online from around the world of many different faiths, cultures and lifestyles.

I enjoy being over 50 and knowing that I don't have to prove a thing to anyone; the real key to happiness is in just knowing the truth about myself. It is enough to keep me content and doesn't lend opportunity to have to compromise myself or my values in life.

I consider the word 'No' in and of itself to be a full and complete sentence that is not open for argument or debate. It works as a two way street, is to be respected wholly and unconditionally when dealing with all people regardless of culture, nationality, lifestyle, personal or political beliefs.

I do not allow room or time in my life for misery or miserable people who in reality only seek to drag others down into their nefarious pits of unhappiness and depression with them. They are thieves of the time and attention of others to feed their own control issues and narcissistic needs.

I was ordained in 1998 to minister the Gospel of Jesus Christ and was privileged to be the founder of a homeless ministry that grew from feeding a few homeless people in the local parks to more than 2,000 people a month.

My first and foremost love will always be the Lord and the ministry.

If I were limited to teaching only one message to mankind it would be this:


It does not matter who on this earth loves you or what they think of you, they do not possess a heaven or hell to put you in. The only love and opinions that count belong exclusively to God The Father and His love is unconditional, unwavering and free of condemnation to those who have accepted Him.



"I will allow no man to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him"

~Booker T. Washington